I am a sucker for Valentine’s Day, and Birthdays and
Anniversaries. I just need an excuse to celebrate. This year I saw a few lovey-dovey
posts on facebook for Valentine’s Day which claimed that every day was
Valentine’s Day with their soul mate. I am a bit incredulous when I hear
something like that, not because I am a cynic but because for me every day
simply cannot be Valentine’s Day. In between chores and long working hours,
toddler tantrums and the daily grind, many a day runs along without a chance
for cuddles and sweet nothings being exchanged with the love of my life. Is
this a reflection that we care less for each other now than six years ago when during
our courtship the romantic gestures were grander? I think not, we certainly
love each other more today, we are more in tune, and we have a lovely girl who
just strengthens this bond between us. Having said that, sometimes I think we
do take our loved ones for granted, not just our partners but maybe also our
parents or siblings or best friends. I am polite, energetic, humorous, and on
my best behavior when I am the “Trainer at Work” but when I get back home at
the end of the day I may just want to crawl into bed or tune out in front of
the TV. So when a special occasion comes along it’s a great chance to show your
loved ones how much you care. Sometimes you may feel pressured by all the
commercialization that such “days” have undergone but celebrations aren't about
buying each other expensive presents it’s about little things that matter much.
Maybe it’s a lovingly cooked meal, a card that you hand painted or a nice back
rub, none of which need to cost big bucks. And that’s my case for celebrating
special occasions because after all it’s not just the day you are celebrating
but the person and the relationship you share.
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